The Spanish Melting Pot

When living in a place, I think it's important to know something about it. I've been to countless museums, historical sites, and prehistorical archaeological sites in Spain. And while it's been interesting, weaving it all together hasn't always been easy. I needed a coach. We aren't taught much European history when we go through school … Continue reading The Spanish Melting Pot

The Power of Disconnection

When we moved to Valencia, everything was different. I felt so bombarded by the differences that any subtlety or shades of grey were completely missed. The things we were dealing with were all primary colors and right in our faces. Now that we've lived in Spain for 16 months, I notice other things. Jeff talked … Continue reading The Power of Disconnection

The Voices in your Head

Thinking back, I realized I started learning Spanish from a young age. Sesame Street on PBS in the US taught me my numbers. Old Spaghetti Westerns from the 50's and 60's, while horribly racist depictions of people from Mexico, taught me some Spanish phrases that are ingrained in me. So much so, they're interchangeable with … Continue reading The Voices in your Head

Taking a Break

We've had a lot of family stuff going on lately and it's consumed most of my energy. I'll be heading back to the US soon to be in the mix. But before that, we headed out to take a little break. It may seem strange since we live on the Med, but stepping back is … Continue reading Taking a Break

Mis Amigos

I have 5 new Spanish boyfriends. Well, not exactly. Don't get too excited. But the way Jeff is reacting to my new crew you'd think I did. There's a bar in Benimachlet that I go to in the mornings sometimes. I'll bring my laptop and write at an outside table over a cafe con leche. … Continue reading Mis Amigos

Quieting the Mind

The last two years have meant constant change for me. It's been two years since I quit my job in the US. Nearly two years ago I walked my Camino. Fourteen months since we moved to Valencia. But while those are big things, I've always believed its the smallest things that make the biggest difference. … Continue reading Quieting the Mind

A Political Time Out

With us being Americans, you may think this will be about the crazy political situation in the US. Yes, we watch it from afar and I only read bits of it because it's too scary and depressing. I felt powerless to do anything about it when I lived there. Now? I can do even less. … Continue reading A Political Time Out

A Day Out

Sometimes it's fun to get out of the city and explore. So I joined a few friends and visited a couple of new places. Neither is on the beaten path. My favorite kind of adventures. It wasn't a flashy day. But it was filled with learning new things and even making new friends. We went … Continue reading A Day Out

Contrato Firmado

Yes - we have a signed contract. Because El Jefe is here it's now a done deal. I clutched the pen with my tiny female claws. Barely able to put pen to paper. But Jeff's large paws made up for my short fall. Eye roll. We met at the imobilaria to meet our new landlords, … Continue reading Contrato Firmado

The Travel Bug

I was bitten by the travel bug even before I ever traveled on my first train ride. It started by receiving gifts from my Uncle living in Japan for my birthdays. And from my Grandmother who was a ballsy lady who traveled the world on her own in retirement. Neither seemed to be afraid of … Continue reading The Travel Bug