The Spanish Melting Pot

When living in a place, I think it's important to know something about it. I've been to countless museums, historical sites, and prehistorical archaeological sites in Spain. And while it's been interesting, weaving it all together hasn't always been easy. I needed a coach. We aren't taught much European history when we go through school … Continue reading The Spanish Melting Pot

The Power of Disconnection

When we moved to Valencia, everything was different. I felt so bombarded by the differences that any subtlety or shades of grey were completely missed. The things we were dealing with were all primary colors and right in our faces. Now that we've lived in Spain for 16 months, I notice other things. Jeff talked … Continue reading The Power of Disconnection

Its About That Time

When I lived in San Francisco in the 90's, there were earthquakes. A lot of earth quakes. Some larger. Some smaller. You took them in your stride. But you started to be able to understand the difference between the various kinds. 'Rolling' was better than the 'Jerk and Snap'. That did more damage to people … Continue reading Its About That Time

Mis Amigos

I have 5 new Spanish boyfriends. Well, not exactly. Don't get too excited. But the way Jeff is reacting to my new crew you'd think I did. There's a bar in Benimachlet that I go to in the mornings sometimes. I'll bring my laptop and write at an outside table over a cafe con leche. … Continue reading Mis Amigos

Quieting the Mind

The last two years have meant constant change for me. It's been two years since I quit my job in the US. Nearly two years ago I walked my Camino. Fourteen months since we moved to Valencia. But while those are big things, I've always believed its the smallest things that make the biggest difference. … Continue reading Quieting the Mind

A Political Time Out

With us being Americans, you may think this will be about the crazy political situation in the US. Yes, we watch it from afar and I only read bits of it because it's too scary and depressing. I felt powerless to do anything about it when I lived there. Now? I can do even less. … Continue reading A Political Time Out

The Pants in the Family

Now that Jeff is back from his travels and envious of my Spring cleaning tactics, he's gone through his closets and tried on all the shorts, etc. to get ready for the season. Jeff has lost some weight recently and much of his old stuff is too big now. And he's discovered some old favorites … Continue reading The Pants in the Family

Contrato Firmado

Yes - we have a signed contract. Because El Jefe is here it's now a done deal. I clutched the pen with my tiny female claws. Barely able to put pen to paper. But Jeff's large paws made up for my short fall. Eye roll. We met at the imobilaria to meet our new landlords, … Continue reading Contrato Firmado

He’s Da Man

I'll be heading on a train to Barcelona soon to hang out with my niece, Melody, for a few days. She's on her first trip to Europe with her HS German language class, and for the last 10 days has been touring Austria, Switzerland, and Germany. She extending her stay here so she can pass … Continue reading He’s Da Man

El Barranc de l’infern

I don't speak Valenciano or Catalan. These are the local languages of the North and Central coasts of the Mediterranean side of Spain. People say they're totally different languages, others say they're the same. To me it doesn't matter - because I know neither of them. To me, they're a combo of Spanish and French. … Continue reading El Barranc de l’infern