Its About That Time

When I lived in San Francisco in the 90's, there were earthquakes. A lot of earth quakes. Some larger. Some smaller. You took them in your stride. But you started to be able to understand the difference between the various kinds. 'Rolling' was better than the 'Jerk and Snap'. That did more damage to people … Continue reading Its About That Time

Mis Amigos

I have 5 new Spanish boyfriends. Well, not exactly. Don't get too excited. But the way Jeff is reacting to my new crew you'd think I did. There's a bar in Benimachlet that I go to in the mornings sometimes. I'll bring my laptop and write at an outside table over a cafe con leche. … Continue reading Mis Amigos

Guest Blog: Feliz Primer Anniversario – El Jefe’s Perspective

We have made it a whole year! I have a lot of stuff filed under “If only I knew then what I know now” and I’ll help Kelli out now and again with a guest blog post sharing my observations of living here in Valencia. Do I need one of those? I think living in the … Continue reading Guest Blog: Feliz Primer Anniversario – El Jefe’s Perspective

This Old Dog

They say you're only as old as you feel. But, as I've discovered, that's not necessarily true. You're actually as old as you are. And there is no way around that. I have been playing on a women's futbol (soccer) team here in Valencia. We practice every Monday and Wednesday. It took me a couple … Continue reading This Old Dog

No Passa Nada

I know some people who moved here after we did. They had been reading my blog and told me, on more than one occasion, ‘All we had to do was ask ourselves ‘What would Kelli do?’ and then do the exact opposite’. Sure, I’m pretty clear I’ve made some mistakes, but it’s all learning. That’s … Continue reading No Passa Nada

And Now We Wait

This morning I made my way to the Autoescula across town, where I have been taking my driving lessons. At 10 am we went to the starting ground for the practical driving exam. It was time. On a wall I saw 'Nunca sabras de lo que eres capaz hasta que lo intentes.' by Charles Dickens. … Continue reading And Now We Wait

The Sun Also Rises

Time smooths out the rough edges of memory. Sometimes it makes the past seem rosier than, perhaps, it really was. We are home from Ireland. We were excited to spend Christmas in New Years in weather that felt like so many holidays of the past. Especially all the years we spent in Seattle. And it … Continue reading The Sun Also Rises

Did You Order Something?

When the door buzzer went off this morning, we did what we always do. We looked at each other immediately and said simultaneously 'Did you order something?' There are two reasons for this. 1) The person who did the ordering has to go to the little phone in the kitchen, say 'Hola!' and then try … Continue reading Did You Order Something?

You Got This

The first day on my Camino - walking out of St. Jean, in southern France at the foot of the Pyrenees, I had no idea what I was in for. I had not really trained. But within an hour it would be abundantly clear to me I was in over my head. I stood at … Continue reading You Got This

A Peek Behind the Curtain

Jeff has a rich inner life. One I'm not always privy to. Periodically, he gives me glimpses into it. More now than in the beginning. Usually, it will start with 'I've been thinking...' or 'I've been doing some research...'. And it means that he's been thinking about, and finding ways to solve, whatever it is … Continue reading A Peek Behind the Curtain