The Spanish Melting Pot

When living in a place, I think it's important to know something about it. I've been to countless museums, historical sites, and prehistorical archaeological sites in Spain. And while it's been interesting, weaving it all together hasn't always been easy. I needed a coach. We aren't taught much European history when we go through school … Continue reading The Spanish Melting Pot

The Power of Disconnection

When we moved to Valencia, everything was different. I felt so bombarded by the differences that any subtlety or shades of grey were completely missed. The things we were dealing with were all primary colors and right in our faces. Now that we've lived in Spain for 16 months, I notice other things. Jeff talked … Continue reading The Power of Disconnection

The Voices in your Head

Thinking back, I realized I started learning Spanish from a young age. Sesame Street on PBS in the US taught me my numbers. Old Spaghetti Westerns from the 50's and 60's, while horribly racist depictions of people from Mexico, taught me some Spanish phrases that are ingrained in me. So much so, they're interchangeable with … Continue reading The Voices in your Head

Its About That Time

When I lived in San Francisco in the 90's, there were earthquakes. A lot of earth quakes. Some larger. Some smaller. You took them in your stride. But you started to be able to understand the difference between the various kinds. 'Rolling' was better than the 'Jerk and Snap'. That did more damage to people … Continue reading Its About That Time

Taking a Break

We've had a lot of family stuff going on lately and it's consumed most of my energy. I'll be heading back to the US soon to be in the mix. But before that, we headed out to take a little break. It may seem strange since we live on the Med, but stepping back is … Continue reading Taking a Break

Mis Amigos

I have 5 new Spanish boyfriends. Well, not exactly. Don't get too excited. But the way Jeff is reacting to my new crew you'd think I did. There's a bar in Benimachlet that I go to in the mornings sometimes. I'll bring my laptop and write at an outside table over a cafe con leche. … Continue reading Mis Amigos

Quieting the Mind

The last two years have meant constant change for me. It's been two years since I quit my job in the US. Nearly two years ago I walked my Camino. Fourteen months since we moved to Valencia. But while those are big things, I've always believed its the smallest things that make the biggest difference. … Continue reading Quieting the Mind