Well that was fun. Not really. After the last 36 hours of extreme drama, Emilie’s feet never left US soil. You heard that correctly. Emilie remains in the US with her boyfriend.
Before you, dear readers, become concerned about us, just know we are in full support of Emilie staying right where she is. And her working through what she needs to. It’s all ok. And so are Jeff and I. Clearly, we are disappointed. But sometimes things happen.
It is said that the reason for so much pain in humans is a lack of acceptance of reality. It causes a conflict within us as we wish it weren’t so. When we accept it, we can move past it over time. Fight it, and we never move on. It’s the grieving process. In this case, Jeff and I just sat here, granted in shock, and immediately said ‘OK. Like so many circumstances, there is nothing we can do. We can only try not to add to furthering the drama.’ And that is just what we have done. You mourn the loss of how you thought it would go. Allow the disappointment to wash over you. Then you move forward. That’s pretty much our last two years. We know how to do it.
I always try to focus on the upside. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort. But we do have a house whose to-do list (other than major renovations) was long. And now? Most of that stuff got ticked off. In preparation of Emilie’s imminent arrival we had gone to town getting it all done so she would be comfortable. And now, we will spend the winter focused on getting our business up and running for Spring. Instead of all the little things that needed our attention, we will refocus.
It’s lovely to believe in fairytale endings. That a theme song will suddenly play to pull at your heartstrings and make everything OK. But that isn’t real-life. Usually, we take a deep breath, or two, and we look forward, towards the horizon. That’s where the future is, after all. And we keep going. In the end, it’s the only thing we can do.
Happy holidays!
Ted & Debbie from Valencia
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😔 Hope everything is okay 🙏🥰
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Hugs…
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Beautifully written. Sorry she’s not making it.
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🤗 💕 🤗
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Hi Kelli, we can totally understand you and feel with you. On our side, it is also not yet clear, if Florian will be able to come for Christmas this year or not… Same story.
Glad to know, that you are taking this disappointment in that way.
Thinking of you
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Sorry to hear this, Peter. Our children have grown up. And Covid hasn’t helped. Today I feel better than yesterday. We will bounce back.
I hope 2022 with be a better year for all of us. Spain’s cases are rising along with France. Hopefully, we will be able to all see each other in the coming year. We would love to have you and Martina to Galicia. And a trip to Paris, mask-free, is on Jeff’s and my post-pandemic wish list. I keep thinking ‘this too shall pass.’ On so many levels.
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Definitely. Visiting you in Galicia is clearly one of our next targets. And we would be more than happy to have you here again!
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Kelli, I’m heartbroken for you all. I know how much you were looking forward to this reunion with Emilie. I’ve honestly been waiting for your post to let us all know she arrived safe and sound. You never know what the Universe has up her sleeve… I’m hoping your reunion will be sooner than later. Take good care ❤️
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Thank you. We are philosophical about it all. I believe you are right. I said it to Jeff this morning. There is a reason for this. And I think we will discover that, they in the end it was the right thing. Something will happen and we will say ‘This wouldn’t have happened unless we endured the other.’
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What a fantastic approach to life’s disappointments,,,we knew you both were special before we even met. Ima share this
Peace
B n L
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🤗💕
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What a fantastic way to approach our disappointments in life,,,we knew you guys were special before we met and now it’s confirmed
Peace
B n L
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I feel your pain. My daughter was supposed to be on a plane today. She is walking much better and a plane ride, no problem. But a set back with nerve damage and pain in her arms and hands put our Christmas plans in the dump too. I canceled her flight just last week. It is so disappointing but you’re right, move forward. I want her here for Resurrection Fest in July so therapy and more therapy. 😌
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I am so sorry, Carol. For you and your daughter. She has been through so much. Here is to health and healing in the new year.
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Sad for you. I know how excited you both were.
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Thanks Trish. We are doing OK. 💕 No worries.
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